When I Give Advice. . .
I have six kids. Perhaps unsurprisingly, people ask me for mothering advice.
Advice. I bristle at that word. As if I know your family better than you do.
Yet I am willing to share where we’ve been, what we’ve learned, and how we’ve failed or succeeded along the way.
With anything I share, I want to emphasize that God made you the mother of your children. You are just the right mother for the little ones God has entrusted to you. They are the just right children for you. No one can love and know your children like you do.
I’m still knee-deep in laundry and playdates and diapers and driving lessons. I don’t have all the answers. But I am willing to encourage you, right where you are, with the children God has put in your life.
I hope that you are surrounded by people who are encouraging and supportive. I want to be part of that chorus of encouragement in the middle of the nitty-gritty challenges and joys.
Yet the end of the day, God put your children in your family as part of His plan. You love and will nurture them. Somehow in His infinite goodness, even when you make mistakes (and even sin against them!), He is using that as your children grow in to the people God created them to be.
When I give advice, please hear it as from a friend who wants to encourage you, and trusts you are you make decisions for your family.